HI - I AM SO SORRY IT HAS TAKEN ME SO LONG TO GET ANY INFORMATION TO YOU. WHEN JOE WAS HERE WE TRIED TO LET THE REST OF THE WORLD DISAPPEAR.
RYAN GOEDE IS DOING GOOD. JUST TO LET YOU KNOW WHAT ALL HAPPENED TO HIM. HE BROKE HIS LEFT ARM AND HAD TO HAVE A BONE GRAPH DONE TO REPLACE THE BONE. HE ALSO BROKE BOTH LEGS, ONE HAS TWO BONES BROKEN. HE HAS BURNS ON HIS FACE AND HAS HAD TO HAVE SOME MAJOR SURGERIES ON HIS EYES AND EARS. HE HAS OK VISION IN ONE EYE BUT ONLY UP CLOSE AND STILL CAN'T SEE OUT OF THE OTHER. HIS HEARING IS GOOD FROM WHAT I COULD TELL WHEN I TALKED TO HIM ON THE PHONE. HE WAS HAVING A FEW MORE SURGERIES THIS WEEK IN TEXAS BUT THEN HE WAS GOING TO GO ON CON LEAVE (MEDICAL LEAVE) AND BE PUT IN A HOSPITAL IN THE TOWN WHERE HIS PARENTS LIVE IN ARKANSAS. THIS WILL BE FOR ABOUT 30 DAYS. THEN HE WILL BE SENT BACK TO TEXAS FOR HIS PHYSICAL THERAPY AND FROM THERE THEY WILL DECIDE IF THEY WILL BE SENDING HIM BACK TO HAWAII OR JUST STATIONING HIM THERE IN TEXAS. HE WANTS TO COME BACK TO HAWAII BECAUSE THERE IS NOT AN INFANTRY UNIT IN TEXAS. HE WILL HAVE TO COMPLETELY LEARN HOW TO WALK ALL OVER AGAIN AND MAY NEVER RUN AGAIN, BUT HE IS A STRONG GUY AND I THINK HE WILL COME THROUGH BETTER THAN THE DOCTORS ARE THINKING. I HAVE HIS PARENTS ADDRESS AND PHONE NUMBER AND HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEND ANYTHING TO HIM. HE WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM ANYONE WHO WANTS. HE HAS A FRIEND FROM HOME CHECKING HIS EMAIL IT FOR HIM AND TAKING IT TO HIM. BUT I WILL NOT POST IT ONLINE, SO IF YOU WOULD LIKE THIS INFORMATION PLEASE EMAIL ME AT MELBA20@MSN.COM GOEDE IS IN GOOD SPIRITS. WHEN I ASKED HIM HOW WAS DOING HE SAID HE FELT LIKE A MILLION BUCKS! HOPEFULLY WE WILL GET TO SEE HIM SOON.
NOW ONTO MY GUY. JOE WAS DOING GREAT. I HAVE PICTURES OF HIS INJURIES TO HIS ARM AND LOTS OF OTHER PICTURES HE BROUGHT HOME WITH HIM. I WILL GET THEM POSTED AS SOON AS I CAN. IT LOOKS LIKE I WILL BE MOVING AGAIN AT THE END OF THIS MONTH, BUT I WILL KEEP MY EMAIL UP AS LONG AS POSSIBLE. HIS BREAK WAS GREAT THOUGH. I THINK HE REALLY NEEDED IT. HE SLEPT ABOUT 16 HOURS A DAY THE FIRST FEW DAYS. SAD PART WAS I SLEPT ALMOST AS MUCH, PROBLY JUST RELIEVED TO HAVE HIM THERE WITH ME. IT WAS GREAT TO GET TO JUST HANG OUT. I GOT TO GIVE HIM A HARD TIME, I FELT LIKE I WAS TALKING TO AN OLD MAN BECAUSE HE WAS STILL HAVING TROUBLE HEARING OUT OF HIS LEFT EAR. BUT BEFORE HE LEFT HIS HEARING WAS COMING BACK AND HE IS GOING TO HAVE A CHECKUP UP WHEN HE GETS BACK AND SETTLED IN. WE WERE ALSO ABLE TO GET TO GO TO VEGAS AND SPEND SOME TIME WITH HIS MOM AND SISTER AND HER HUSBAND AND MY PARENTS AND SISTER JOANN. I KNOW I KNOW, VEGAS, BUT IT IS A CHEAP PLACE TO FLY AND STAY AND IT IS AS CLOSE TO THE MIDDLE OF ALL OF US AS WE CAN GET. HE AND I ALSO GOT TO GO TO A LYNRD SKYNRD CONCERT WHILE WE WERE THERE. HE LOVED IT. THEY HAVE SOME GREAT PATRIOTIC SONGS AND THEY USE SOME OF THEIR MUSIC AS PART OF THEIR MENTAL WARFARE IN IRAQ. SO HE WAS EXSTATIC WHEN WE SAW THEY WERE IN TOWN. HE WAS IN GOOD SPIRITS AND HAS A TON OF STORIES. LOTS OF TIMES HE WOULD JUST START LAUGHING AND THEN I WOULD BEG TO HEAR WHAT HE WAS THINKING ABOUT. THESE GUYS ARE FAMILY NOW AND I AM SO HAPPY HE HAS THE PEOPLE AROUND HIM THAT HE DOES. WHEN PEOPLE ASK ME IF JOE AND I HAVE KIDS I LAUGH AND SAY NO JUST A BUNCH OF ADOPTED 20-YEAR OLDS. I CANT WAIT FOR THEM ALL TO COME HOME I MISS THEM SO MUCH.
I GOT TO TALK TO JOE LAST NIGHT AND HE IS BACK IN COUNTRY. HE WAS AT KIRKUK AND WAITING TO CATCH A FLIGHT TO HIS FOB MCHENRY LATER TODAY. SO HE WILL BE BACK TO WORK WITHIN 24 HOURS AT LEAST. BACK TO REALITY FOR BOTH OF US. WE ARE HALF WAY DONE NOW IF THE RUMORS ABOUT THEM BEING HOME BEFORE CHRISTMAS ARE TRUE. IT IS ALL DOWN HILL FROM HERE, JUST NO MORE PURPLE HEARTS. I MADE HIM PROMISE BEFORE HE LEFT. JUST SO YOU ALL KNOW, ONCE HE RECEIVED TWO PURPLE HEARTS THEY GAVE HIM THE OPTION OF COMING HOME. HE AND I TALKED AND HE IS GOING TO STAY AND FINISH WHAT HE WENT TO DO. I TOLD HIM TO GET IT ALL OUT OF HIS SYSTEM FOR AWHILE. THANKFULLY HE IS STRONG ENOUGH TO HAVE HANDLED HIS INJURIES WELL AND BOUNCE BACK. HE HAD TWO MAJOR WOUNDS ON HIS ARM FROM THE IED INCIDENT AND ONE OF THEM WAS SCARRING BEFORE HE LEFT, THE DEEPER ONE WAS ALMOST TO THAT POINT. SO HE IS IN GOOD SHAPE. HE WANTS TO GET BACK TO WORKING OUT. SNAIL MAIL WISE HE IS STILL AT THE SAME ADDRESS AND HAS BEEN RECEIVING MAIL THERE EVEN WHEN HE WAS GONE. THANKS TO EVERYONE WHO SHIPS STUFF. IT HAS BEEN A GREAT TREAT FOR HIM. HE SAID TO KEEP THEM COMING. I WILL WRITE MORE SOON - I HAVE RAMBLED ON FOR AWHILE NOW. IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS JUST EMAIL ME!!!
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